Built by Design: Trauma-Informed, Emotional Regulation, Secure Attachment Hardcover – March 12, 2026

A strong relationship is not sustained by temporary feelings, it is built through daily, operational discipline.Built by Design bridges the gap between spiritual alignment and trauma-informed clinical practice. Most devotionals focus solely on inspiration, leaving couples without the practical tools to navigate the friction of merging two lives. This guide changes the equation.Created by Miarah Jones, LCSW, and structurally designed by Devon McLarty, this 30-day protocol provides the exact proprietary framework needed to regulate emotional triggers, de-escalate conflict, and forge an unbreakable covenant. Inside this 30-Day Protocol, you will learn how to:Gather Data, Not Defenses: Master the discipline of listening without triggering the nervous system’s fight-or-flight response.Neutralize Conflict: Use tone, volume, and pacing as tactical tools to maintain emotional safety during disagreements.Build a Shared Reality: Align your daily operations and financial resources with your ultimate spiritual vision.Break Generational Patterns: Actively identify and dismantle inherited relational dysfunction.Do not just survive the friction of partnership. Build a structure that thrives in it. Read more